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When Emotional Pain Becomes Too Overwhelming to Carry: Understanding Suicidal Thoughts and Self-Harm
Suicidal thoughts and self-harm can be difficult subjects to talk about, but avoiding the conversation can leave people feeling even more alone. Understanding these experiences can help us recognize when someone may need support and respond with compassion rather than fear or judgment.

Anand Barkataki
Oct 83 min read


Does EMDR Always Use A Light Bar?
No, EMDR doesn’t always use a light bar—but there’s a reason this is a common question. Here's what you should know about light bars and alternative tools for EMDR:
Sarah Spencer
Sep 233 min read


When You're Running on Empty
There's always more to do, but you won't be able to do your best if you're running on empty. Here's how to notice your empty tank moments and add rest to each day:

Anand Barkataki
Sep 214 min read


Your Teen Isn't Overreacting
Your teenager comes home saying they're fine, but they don't sound fine. They aren't overreacting—they might have feelings they don't know how to express yet.

Anand Barkataki
Sep 174 min read


Why Everything Might Feel Like Too Much: Overwhelm and Burnout
Have you noticed yourself feeling more irritable lately? Maybe nothing is wrong with you. Maybe you're overloaded.

Anand Barkataki
Sep 93 min read


How Does EMDR Therapy Work?
We do know that EMDR works, but there’s still a lot to learn about how it works. Here's what we do know about how EMDR works and who it can help:
Sarah Spencer
Sep 44 min read


Why Making Friends as an Adult Feels So Hard
When we're younger, proximity does much of the work for us. Adult life is different—here's why and how you can make it easier.

Anand Barkataki
Aug 264 min read


The Loneliness Epidemic: Why So Many People Feel Lonely
Have you ever spent an entire day around people, be it at work, at school, at church, or even with your own family, only to come home feeling strangely alone? Here's why:

Anand Barkataki
Aug 113 min read


Why You Feel Guilty When You Rest
Many people experience rest guilt—but you don't have to. There's a reason it happens, and it has far more to do with what you've learned than with who you are.

Anand Barkataki
Jul 163 min read


Hope Can Be Scary When You’ve Been Disappointed Before
For some, hope doesn’t feel exciting. It feels risky. When you’ve been disappointed before, hope can feel like setting yourself up to be hurt again.

Anand Barkataki
Apr 203 min read


Who Am I Becoming? Identity Questions in Transition Seasons
Sometimes changes in identity don't arrive as a crisis. Instead, they show up quietly through a question that keeps returning in the background of your thoughts.

Anand Barkataki
Mar 243 min read


Your Attachment Style Shows Up More in Winter – Here’s Why
Winter has a quiet way of bringing your inner world closer to the surface—and that includes your attachment patterns.

Anand Barkataki
Feb 234 min read


Motivation Isn’t the Problem – Your Nervous System Might Be
We tend to think of motivation as a character trait. Something you either have or don’t. But motivation is deeply tied to the nervous system.

Anand Barkataki
Feb 193 min read


Lonely Even When You’re Not Alone
There’s a particular kind of loneliness that’s hard to explain–somehow on the outside of things, even while standing in the middle of them. This experience is far more common than you might think.

Anand Barkataki
Feb 184 min read


Sadness vs. Depression: When to Seek Therapy
Sadness is part of being human. It helps us slow down, reflect, and heal. But sometimes that sadness lingers. Many people struggle to know when to seek help, and understanding the difference between sadness and depression can be the first step toward healing.

Anand Barkataki
Feb 173 min read


Loneliness – Understanding It, Coping with It, and Finding Connection
Loneliness has a quiet way of creeping in even when life looks “fine” from the outside. It's not a weakness; it’s a sign that you are a social being, and your need for emotional connection isn’t being met.

Anand Barkataki
Feb 173 min read


Sick, Tired, and Emotionally Done: How Illness Impacts Mental Health
There’s a particular kind of low that shows up when you’re sick. A feeling of being emotionally done in a way that surprises you.
If this is where you are right now, know that there’s nothing is wrong with you.

Anand Barkataki
Jan 233 min read
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